I have heard one saying about marriage. ‘If you get married, you will be regretful. But if not married, you will be regretful too.’ Whether people got married or not, they get regretful? It could be. Because life itself is often called as suffering in Buddhism.
But I think about this based on growth. What is the best relationship between people? Ilchi Lee often says, it is the partnership. When we help each others grow physically,mentally and spiritually, that is the best relationship. So when people get married but they don’t help each other grow, they become regretful as they get older.
Now I’m looking over myself. How much do I live helping people around me for their growth? Sometimes I just focus on myself, my task, my time,… But I need to practise good habits of thinking and acting for more people and their growth. And when I do that, I will be happier. Let’s do it together~